During the ancient times, men believed in witchcraft.

They used it to attract girls.

These men scoured the countryside for some knowledgeable witches to cast some magical spell towards the girl of their choice. Sometimes, these witches brewed magic potions. When secretly mixed into the food or drink, these potions caused girls to feel attraction towards the guys.

“I get it now,” says Mark, an oil driller down the Mexican Gulf rig who likes to read fairy tales during his free time.

“That explains why ancient Greek and Roman folklore revolved around these themes. It was their way to attract girls.”

Exactly

In this present-day, we no longer believe in witches or in magic.

Rather, we use modern ways to attract girls.

And these techniques work like a charm.

Do you ever wish to walk down the street and have girls ogling over just to catch your attention?

I bet you do.

You want to make a girl want you. Most guys secretly harbor the same wish. But you snap back from your reverie and brush off your wish away.

I’m just a plain-looking, next-door type of guy, “you tell yourself.

There is no way that girls would coo over me.

Geesh, that’s impossible!

Maybe if I’m George Cloney, or Christopher Reeve. Or if I somehow could at least resemble Brad Pitt. But just being me? No way!

But wait.

What if we tell you that you can make your wish a reality–that you can make a girl want you?

“Aw shucks, man,” you interrupt. “I don’t believe it.”

Come to think of it.

What traits or qualities  attract women?

Do you know?

It would be nice if we, men, know what qualities attract women. We can then capitalize on this knowledge for our advantage.

However, let’s face it.

We are not in authority to answer this question.

No man is.

You and I could have different ideas on this one. We make speculations. And that’s just that.

All are speculations.

We don’t know exactly what attracts women. So let’s cut the guesswork and spare ourselves the hard work.

No one can tell what attracts women better than the women themselves.

We ask some women and here are their answers:

“I’m attracted to men with a smooth shaved face, “says Debbie, customer-relations manager.

Have you had the unforgettable experience of encountering a gorgeously pretty girl walking down your way and yet you did nothing? Or met a beauty down the hall smiling sweetly at you and you suddenly froze like a sore thumb?

Ok, you can put your hands down now.

You wanted to approach her. You wanted to speak to her, to know her name, and to be with her. But you didn’t.

And you know why? You don’t know how.

But be cool, dude. Today, you will learn the secrets of how to approach girls properly and get desired results.

Here’s how:

1.) CHECK YOU HYGIENCE

Girls would appreciate a guy who walks up to them smelling nice and clean. That means you should take a hard look at your personal hygiene. To begin with, your nails should be clean. Take a bath, put on fresh clean clothes.

Timmy was a well-decorated American soldier. During the Iraq war, he boldly led a three-man team on a daring and risky assault against heavily guarded enemy flanks.

His companions and fellow soldiers recounted to friends how Timmy single-handedly broke through enemy lines with unusual courage and insolence.

“He was remarkably brave out there,” they told friends.

But the same brave and decorated Timmy back home cowed in front of beautiful women. He felt shy and dreaded talking with them.

“I hate to admit it but I seem tongue-tied and scared approaching women,” he confessed.

How To Pick Up Women

According to freedictionary.com, the words “pick up” are a verb phrase that sends different meanings.

It could mean to gather by hand, like pick-up firewood.

Or it could mean to buy, like pick up the electric drill at Wal-Mart.

“Hey, wise guy,” you cut in. “Is it also the same as saying pick up the cute saleslady at Wal-Mart?”

If you mean you want to buy her, no. Definitely not, kiddo.

Now let’s go on with our discussion. And take note, this is the interesting part. Freedictionary.com states that to pick up is also a slang word that means “to become acquainted with for a sexual purpose”.

“Aha,” you exclaim with a knowing naughty look. Your wide grin spreads from ear to ear. Glad you finally get it, kiddo. That is exactly what we have in mind in this article. To pick up women and eventually sleeping with her.

What do you usually do when you want to pick up girls you see at the mall? If you’re like most ordinary guys, you merely stare at her from a distance.

“I wish I could talk to her, “you mumble.

You wish to be with her. You wish to attract here. You wish to pick her up and hit off to some cozy place.

Have you noticed? All you have are just wishes. You wish this and wish that. And the funny part is, you do nothing. You wish that you can put some magic in your stare and this pretty girl would just snap back in your direction on seeing you. In your mind she would smile and approach you. Then she would slip her arm around you and walk off together happily ever after…

How To Have Confidence With Women

What’s the difference between a guy that can approach women without fear and nervousness and the guy that’s just overwhelmed with anxiety?

Answer: What they’re thinking about and where they’re coming from.

The guy that’s confident with women knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that women will love him. All he has to do is walk up and start talking. He also knows that it’s not such a big deal to meet women everywhere he goes.

It’s just the way it is.

On the other hand, the guy that’s nervous and lacks confidence with women thinks about all the reasons why women will reject him. He thinks about all the worst scenarios possible and dwells on them. He comes up with reasons why he shouldn’t talk to women.

He becomes his own enemy.

How To Overcome Approach Anxiety and Meet Women More Confidently

Today we address the #2 most popular question from our readers: how to deal with approach anxiety?

You know, that voice in your head that talks you OUT of going up to an attractive woman and saying something, anything, to get an interaction started.

Approach anxiety, is an interesting beast in many ways.

Technically, it’s the least difficult thing in pickup: all you have to do is walk up to someone and begin a conversation. You will certainly agree with me, if you consider that generating attraction, getting phone numbers, setting up dates, etc., all require at least some technical understanding to execute consistently.

Not true with approaching: just get yourself in front of a woman and say “Hi!” and you’re in the game. (In fact, one of the tricks I teach guys to overcome Approach anxiety is called the 3-step technique: when you see a girl, take 3 steps toward her… and keep going! See, how easy is that.)

If you don’t know how to make a girl like you, then this might be the most important
article you’ve ever read.

Here’s the harsh cold reality that no one want to tell you.

It’s not about her… It’s about YOU.

If you feel like beautiful women won’t be interested in you, then you’re
probably right.

I’m not going to sugar coat it and tell you that women would be all over
you…

On the other hand, if you believe that you have the ability and power to
make girls like you and even want you, then you’re probably right too.

So what am I trying to get at here?

It’s all about YOU and how you perceive yourself.

If you want girls to like you, then you need to work on becoming a
the best version of yourself.