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		<title>4 PROVEN WAYS TO ATTRACT GIRLS</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[During the ancient times, men believed in witchcraft.

They used it to attract girls. (...)]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">During the ancient times, men believed in witchcraft.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">They used it to attract girls.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">These men scoured the countryside for some knowledgeable witches to cast some magical spell towards the girl of their choice. Sometimes, these witches brewed magic potions. When secretly mixed into the food or drink, these potions caused girls to feel attraction towards the guys.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>“I get it now,” says Mark, an oil driller down the Mexican  Gulf rig who likes to read fairy tales during his free time.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“That explains why ancient Greek and Roman folklore revolved around these themes. It was their way to attract girls.”</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Exactly</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">In this present-day, we no longer believe in witches or in magic.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Rather, we use modern ways to attract girls.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">And these techniques work like a charm.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">When applied, we guarantee that your success will shot through the roof.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Here are some of the proven ways to attract girls:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>1.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Girls love to talk.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">This means the best way to attract girls is by talking to them. A guy should develop good communication skills if he hopes to attract girls. You see, girls evaluate men based on the first few minutes of conversation with them.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">But then again, you don’t need to be an excellent conversationalist to do this.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Just learn how to talk and how to talk well and you’re on your way. You couldn’t miss on this.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It’s the girls’ weakness.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">If you want to attract girls, develop good communication skills.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>2.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->GET SELF-CONFIDENCE</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/yaa033000039.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-212" title="YAA033000039.jpg" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/yaa033000039-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It takes some degree of self-confidence to talk to and attract girls.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">There’s just no other way.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">(Ok, I would like to make exceptions. You can pull it off even though you don’t have self-confidence as long as you’ve got the looks of a famous male Hollywood celebrity. Or you are as rich as Bill Gates.)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>But for ordinary guys like you and me, self-confidence is the ticket to attraction. Develop a healthy dose of self-confidence and you stand a good chance to attract girls.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>3.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->POSITIVE OUTLOOK</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Let’s face it.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Nobody likes to hangout with whiners and complainers.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">As a whole, we like people with happy, positive outlook in life. These individuals look at the bright side of life. They don’t complain about their misery. They have a wholesome passion on life and this draws people into them.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">So guys, burn this fact into your head.If you want to attract girls.Think positive,and always be happy.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>4.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->PRACTICE<span> </span>PERSONAL HYGIENE</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Most guys don’t always maintain their personal hygiene.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">As a picked-up habit, they don’t take baths, comb their hair, brush their teeth or trim their nails on regular basis. Of course, there are some guys who do. But they are rather the exception rather than the rule. And they’re only a few.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">But understand this.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>By proper personal hygiene, we don’t mean that you preen yourself now and then. Or comb your hair every five minutes.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">If you want to attract girls, make sure you look nice, you smell nice, and you don’t have bad breath.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Georgia;">Want more killer dating tips and techniques?</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Georgia;">If so, I’d like to invite you to read my free report “How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days”.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you ever wish to walk down the street and have girls ogling over just to catch your attention?


I bet you do.


You want to make a girl want you.  Most guys secretly harbor the same wish. (...)]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Do you ever wish to walk down the street and have girls ogling over just to catch your attention?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I bet you do.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">You want to make a girl want you. <span> </span>Most guys secretly harbor the same wish. But you snap back from your reverie and brush off your wish away.</p>
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I’m just a plain-looking, next-door type of guy, “you tell yourself.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">There is no way that girls would coo over me.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Geesh, that’s impossible!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Maybe if I’m George Cloney, or Christopher Reeve.<span> </span>Or if I somehow could at least resemble Brad Pitt. But just being me? No way!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">But wait.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">What if we tell you that you can make your wish a reality&#8211;that you can make a girl want you?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“Aw shucks, man,” you interrupt. “I don’t believe it.”</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Ok. I perfectly understand your skepticism. I was once skeptical about it, too. And I know how you feel.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Let me illustrate a point.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">In this illustration, I will discuss about airplane. An airplane can fly because of two crucial factors. One its wings’ round leading edge at front that abruptly tapers off to sharp trailing edge. This design gives the lift. Two it is more than 63, 300 pounds of engine trust. Combined, these aerodynamic designs make a plane fly.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">And it works.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">This is the same smart design found in birds and in nearly all flying insects. No rocket science in that.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Now, I want you to imagine a Jumbo 747. Rip away its wings. Take apart its robust engine. Do you think it can fly?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“It can’t,” you reply. “It does not take a physicist to figure that out.”</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You’re right. In fact, physicists and engineers agree with you. There is no way a giant 747 can fly without the wings and its powerful engine.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">But it can. It does fly.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“You must be nuts,” you exclaim.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Nope. This is precisely the case of a bumblebee. To begin with, the bumble has a heavy and bulky body. It has no tapered wings. And to top it all, it has no engine thrusts.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">According to scientists, engineers, and every smart brain out there who understand flight, the bumble COULD NOT FLY. IT SHOULD NOT FLY. It’s just impossible!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">But the bumblebee does not care what these smart-ass scientists think. It doesn’t give a damn.<span> </span>It defies the science of aerodynamics and just flies.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“So what does this got to do with me?” you ask.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">A lot actually,</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It is strikingly similar to your secret wish, remember?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">You believe that to make a girl want you, you have to be handsome. You need to have the looks of a celebrity. You need to have lots of money. You need to be tall, perfectly tanned, etc&#8230;</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">And according to you, there is no way you can make girls want an ordinary-looking guy like you, right?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">WRONG!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Right now, several ordinary-looking guys like you are in the arms of pretty gorgeous girls. And to think these guys have no money, got no good looks like George Cloney or Brad Pitt. And they are not even remotely popular.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">They only got one thing.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">These guys knew the secrets to make girls want them</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Interested?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Now, you’re talking.<span> </span>You are now interested on how to make girls want you. You are now dying to know the secrets on how to make girls want an ordinary, plain-looking, next-door type of a guy, like you.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">And we happily oblige.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Without much further ado, here are the best-kept secrets on how to make a girl want you:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>1.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->DEVELOP SELF-ESTEEM</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">In a random survey conducted on all women—from college girls to sexy models to pretty celebrities—they were asked what is the topmost quality that attract them to men.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">And their answer is the same: a guy’s self esteem. Not money. Not looks. Not popularity.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Just a dose of self esteem. These girls are highly attracted to men who show self-confidence.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Develop confidence and you will surely make a girl want you. It’s as simple as that.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/99031.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-232" title="99031" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/99031-300x218.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="218" /></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><span>2.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span>SHOW RESPECT</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">The fastest way to drive girls away from you like a speeding race car zip-zagging at 350mph is to show them DISRESPECT.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Treat them in a condescending way and you’re assured of their contempt.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">But treat them nice. Treat them well.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Be sensitive to the feelings and you will become like magnet to them. You draw and attract them the same way honey draws and attract ants. <span> </span>This is one effective secret to make a girl want you.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>3.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->ENGAGE THEM IN INTERESTING CONVERSATION</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It’s a fact.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Men are not good talkers by nature.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">We rather act and do things, rather than talk. But women are different. Women loves to talk. And if you want to make a girl want you, you have to learn how to engage her in an interesting conversation.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It’s similar to catching fish with worm bait.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">In this case, the fish is the girl and the bait is interesting conversation. Put out an interesting conversation and you can make a girl want you.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>4.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->BE SOCIALLY KNOWLEDGEABLE</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">In plain words, this means you should be in touch with the current events. You should be familiar with the evening news.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">In addition, you should know who made it to Ophra’s Show last night. Or the latest Armani fur suit.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">You should also know what’s hot in female perfume, and that what made the main star dump her boyfriend in TV series “Friends”.<span> </span>These things make a girl want you.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>5.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->BE A SMART DRESSER</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Now, now, now .Do not cringe.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I know. Most men are sloppy dressers.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">We are not really keen on how we look with clothes. But if you want to make a girl want you, be a smart dresser.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">You see, women are visual creatures when it comes to how men dress. They’re a stickler to it. Remember that survey we talk about a while ago about what things attract women?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Here’s one for you.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">They confessed that they are attracted to men who are smart dressers. By smart dressers, they mean that guys wear clothes fit, color-coordinated, and visually appealing.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">This means that what you wear SHOULD NOT HAVE loose hanging buttons, no holes, and no ketchup stains on sleeves. If you pay particular attention to how you dress, you will definitely make a girl want you.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Guaranteed.</p>
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		<title>5 QUALITIES THAT ATTRACT WOMEN</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Come to think of it.

What traits or qualities  attract women?

Do you know?

It would be nice if we, men, know what qualities attract women. (...)]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Come to think of it.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">What traits or qualities  attract women?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Do you know?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It would be nice if we, men, know what qualities attract women. We can then capitalize on this knowledge for our advantage.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">However, let’s face it.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">We are not in authority to answer this question.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">No man is.<span> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">You and I could have different ideas on this one. We make speculations. And that’s just that.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">All are speculations.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">We don’t know exactly what attracts women. So let’s cut the guesswork and spare ourselves the hard work.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">No one can tell what attracts women better than the women themselves.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We ask some women and here are their answers:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“I’m attracted to men with a smooth shaved face, “says Debbie, customer-relations manager.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>“For me, I’d fall for a man’s well-groomed hair, “explains Mitch, a restaurant owner. “ A well-groomed hair shows that a guy is aware of his looks. And that makes him attractive to me.”</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“I always flip over a guy who’s fit and healthy, “answers Anne, a medical secretary.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“I’d go for a man that knows how to lead, “says gorgeous Roxanne.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Have you noticed their answers, guys?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">These things attract women. Catching a woman’s eye is not as hard as it seem.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Obviously, you don’t have to drive a Ferrari, or own sums of money. You don’t even have to be famous.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">If you think about it, these women’s answers boils down to two important factors:<span> </span>our traits and the way we take care of ourselves.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">In summary, here are the male traits and qualities that attract women:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>1.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->LEADERSHIP</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Leadership qualities attract women.<span> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">These qualities make men admirable. Men with leadership qualities are bold, daring, adventurous, and are always sure of themselves.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>But again, let’s face it. Men are not created equal. There are those who show leadership qualities, and there are those who don’t. If you are among hesitant type, you can still improve and develop leadership qualities.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>2.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->PHYSICALLY HEALTHY</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">According to women, a physically fit and healthy man is far more attractive than those who are not.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">The feeling is actually mutual, right guys? You will not be attracted to a swaggering, plus-sized woman that looks like a limp ostrich, would you? So to attract women, you need to take care of your body. Lead a healthy lifestyle. Be fit. Eat healthy foods. Exercise. Engage in active sports. A physically fit man definitely attracts women.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>3.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->WELL-COMBED HAIR</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Unless you are famous long-haired, guitar-totting rock star, you should comb your hair. (Even long-haired rock stars comb their hair!)<span> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Don’t ever go out with unkempt hair.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Get regular haircuts that fit your personality. If you want, you can apply gel to hold your hair in place. Take time in caring for your hair. As you’ve learned by now, a well-combed hair attracts women.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/006012a.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-228" title="006012a" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/006012a-198x300.jpg" alt="" width="198" height="300" /></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>4.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->GOOD POSTURE</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">You want to attract women? Good.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>But check your posture first.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If you are tied in a desk job, and you sit in front of a computer for extended periods, there’s a good chance that you can develop bad posture. You tend to slouch in your seat.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You back bends a bit when you stand up.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And such bad posture turns off women. Don’t be surprised if you notice that women deliberately avoid you. Or that you don’t get any dates at all.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">It’s your posture.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">To attract women, stand up straight. Make it a habit, at all times and in all places. Adjust your chair so you will not slouch and can sit comfortably when you do computer work.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>5.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->GOOD MANNERS</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Good manners show good cultured breeding.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It reflects your personality. And fine manners attract women. Speak softly and clearly. Be deliberate in your actions. Cultivate a pleasant attitude. And SMILE at people. These are some of the things that attract women.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Georgia;">Want more killer dating tips and techniques?</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Georgia;">If so, I’d like to invite you to read my free report “How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days”.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Georgia;">It’s free, there’s no obligation, and you can be reading it within the next 5 minutes.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Georgia;">On top of that, you’ll get a free subscription to my “Secrets To Dating” newsletter that’s’ JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and advice on how to take things to a “physical” level smoothly and easily.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Georgia;">If you’d like to take your success with women and dating to the next level, and have the kind of success that you’ve always wanted, then go sign up for my free newsletter, and get your free special report located here:</span></p>
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		<title>How To Approach Girls</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you had the unforgettable experience of encountering a gorgeously pretty girl walking down your way and yet you did nothing? (...)]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Have you had the unforgettable experience of encountering a gorgeously pretty girl walking down your way and yet you did nothing? Or met a beauty down the hall smiling sweetly at you and you suddenly froze like a sore thumb?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Ok, you can put your hands down now.<span> </span><span> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">You wanted to approach her. You wanted to speak to her, to know her name, and to be with her. But you didn’t.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>And you know why? You don’t know how.<br />
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<p class="MsoNormal">But be cool, dude. Today, you will learn the secrets of how to approach girls properly and get desired results.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Here’s how:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>1.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->CHECK YOU HYGIENCE<br />
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<p class="MsoNormal">Girls would appreciate a guy who walks up to them smelling nice and clean. That means you should take a hard look at your personal hygiene. To begin with, your nails should be clean.<span> </span>Take a bath, put on fresh clean clothes.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>“Should I put on an underarm deodorant?”</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Of course.<span> </span>Otherwise people would gossip about you for days!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Now, comb your hair. To complete your hygiene, dab on some light cologne. Remember we stress the word “dab”. Don’t try to pour the whole bottle of cologne over yourself or you’ll alert the septic tank siphoning company.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">One more thing. Make sure you breath smells nice.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">If you haven’t brushed your teeth for a week, you might as well do it now. (Reach for a toothbrush and not that steel brush, you dummy!) Bad, smelly breath could spoil your chances when you try to approach girls.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/2pic1.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-191" title="2pic1" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/2pic1-197x300.jpg" alt="" width="197" height="300" /></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>2.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->2. BE CONFIDENT ABOUT YOUR POSTURE<a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/2pic1.jpg"><br />
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<p class="MsoNormal">Approach girls with confident strides.<span> </span>Keep eye contact.<span> </span>Don’t make a step towards them then back off to a different direction at the last minute. Be smooth about it and you’re good to go. Girls are inherently attracted to guys with killer confidence. And remember to be always polite and friend about it.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>“And what if she’s with friends?” you shot back.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Then mingle and talk with each of them. It would add increase your chances of grabbing your girl’s attention if you speak to her friends as well.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">3.) PUT YOUR INNER SCANNING RADAR INTO HIGH GEAR</p>
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This means you should be alert for the signals she’s giving you. If she smiles back, flicks her hair for no obvious reason, or touches your arm lightly when she talks, then it’s a done deal. Take your time because she’s all yours.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/5pic.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-192" title="bxp63296h" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/5pic-300x206.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="206" /></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">On the other hand, be wary of telltale busy signals. When you have introduced yourself and she looks away, cut clean.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Say, “Nice knowing you,” and then make a graceful exit.</p>
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<p>Want more killer dating tips and techniques?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">If so, I’d like to invite you to read my free report “How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days”.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It’s free, there’s no obligation, and you can be reading it within the next 5 minutes.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">On top of that, you’ll get a free subscription to my “Secrets To Dating” newsletter that’s’ JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and advice on how to take things to a “physical” level smoothly and easily.</p>
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		<title>3 DEADLY MYTHS THAT HARM YOUR DATING LIFE:And How To Deal With Them</title>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">Timmy was a well-decorated American soldier. During the Iraq war, he boldly led a <span> </span>three-man<span> </span>team on a daring and risky assault against heavily guarded enemy flanks.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">His companions and fellow soldiers recounted to friends how Timmy single-handedly broke through enemy lines with unusual courage and insolence.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">“He was remarkably brave out there,” they told friends. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">But the same brave and decorated Timmy back home cowed in front of beautiful women. He felt shy and dreaded talking with them.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">“I hate to admit it but I seem tongue-tied and scared approaching women,” he confessed.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span>Darlene, one of their pretty neighbors and Timmy’s childhood crush, attended Timmy’s homecoming party but Timmy never took the courage to ask her for a date.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span>Years later, he met Darlene, now married with five kids, in a school reunion.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">“You know, I fancied you a lot when you were still single “he regretfully admitted to her.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">“Then why didn’t you tell me? “she sighed.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span>Now listen up, guys, and pay particular attention to Timmy’s answer. It’s a classic, self-defeating myth that had been perpetuated through the ages. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span>Timmy scratched his head and said, “Well, I <em>thought</em> that pretty women like you will never hook-up with ordinary-looking guys like me.”</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span><span> </span>Sounds like most of us, isn’t it? <span> </span>Surely you have the same thoughts in your head. We guys are <span> </span><span> </span>really funny!</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span>Here are the top 3 false and ridiculous dating myths that are harming your love life:</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span>1.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 11pt;">MYTH #1</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">YOU NEED TO BE DASHINGLY HANDSOME TO GET GORGEOUSLY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span><span> </span>We blame the media for this. For so long, radio, TV, and movies constantly bombard us with <span> </span>ads and messages about beautiful women pairing up with handsome men. In real life, the exact <span> </span>opposite is true. Women prefer men’s caring traits than being good-looking.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span>“I am not after the looks of a guy, “says Glenda, a top-notched ramp model. “ I just want <span> </span>someone wholesome and have a great sense of humor.” Pat, her colleagues,echoes Glenda’s <span> </span>remark.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">“Me, too,” Pat adds, “I am not particular with a guy’s appearance as long as he is caring and protective of me.”</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">There you have it, guys. Indeed a surprising eye-opener for us.<span> </span>And how do you deal with this insidious myth? Accept your uniqueness. Be yourself and be proud about it.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span>2.)<span> </span><span> </span>MYTH # 2</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span>YOU NEED TO BE WEALTHY OR POPULAR TO ATTRACT WOMEN</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -27pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span>Ever had those images of rich guys driving along BMWs or Porches with voluptuous <span> </span><span> </span>chicks <span> </span>aboard? You’re not alone.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -27pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -27pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span>Most guys harbor the same thoughts but are reluctant to admit it.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -27pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -27pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span>“We women don’t fancy guys with sport scars or racing yachts, “says Bianca, a pretty <span> </span>celebrated movie star.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -27pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -27pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span>“Or guys with stocks and bonds, “adds Camille, another stunning beauty flight attendant.”</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span>Personally, I’d settle for fun-loving man who is concerned with my safety and welfare.”</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.75in; text-indent: -0.5in;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span>To banish this myth in your life, you only need to be hardworking. Strive to have at least <span> </span>a gainful employment and be financially independent. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">3.)MYTH # 3</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">YOU NEED TO BE A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST TO SLEEP WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/4pic.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-188" title="4pic" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/4pic-300x201.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="201" /></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">Nothing is farther than the truth. While it is true that you should be able to engage women in an interesting conversation, you need not be obsessed in being a good conversationalist.<span> </span>Just be true to your words.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">“I’m attracted to men who speak honestly, “declares Cherry, pretty Manhattan office manager.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">To help you hold interesting conversations with women, fill your mind with worthwhile ideas.<span> </span>Browse through newspapers. Be familiar with current events.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">And as an insider tip, keep yourself updated with the latest fashion trends, jewelries news, and beauty products. Women love to hear you talk about these! </span></p>
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According to freedictionary.com, the words “pick up” are a verb phrase that sends different meanings.

It could mean to gather by hand, like pick-up firewood. (...)]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span> </span>How To Pick Up Women</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/firstpic1.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-146" title="firstpic1" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/firstpic1.jpg" alt="" width="294" height="450" /></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">According to freedictionary.com, the words “pick up” are a verb phrase that sends different meanings.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It could mean to gather by hand, like pick-up firewood.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Or it could mean to buy, like pick up the electric drill at Wal-Mart.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“Hey, wise guy,” you cut in. “Is it also the same as saying pick up the cute saleslady at Wal-Mart?”</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">If you mean you want to buy her, no. Definitely not, kiddo.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Now let’s go on with our discussion. And take note, this is the interesting part.<span> </span>Freedictionary.com states that to pick up is also a slang word that means “to become acquainted with for a sexual purpose”.<span> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>“Aha,” you exclaim with a knowing naughty look. Your wide grin spreads from ear to ear. <span> </span>Glad you finally get it, kiddo. <span> </span><em>That</em> is exactly what we have in mind in this article. To pick up women and eventually sleeping with her. <span> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">For some men, successfully picking up women needs no effort at all. It’s no rocket science. To them, it seems just having a handshake and that’s that. This smart-ass guy talks to the woman, she responds and they walk away together to some private place (and mind you, she’s not the least bit a hooker!).</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">But for the rest of the ordinary guys, picking up women is one nasty ordeal. To them, it feels like fighting the gigantic gorilla, King Kong, in a hand-to-hand combat. The mere thought alone scares away the wits of any seemingly tough guy.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We know.<span> </span>Like you, we too had been there</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">How in the world would you pick up women and discreetly convey to them “I would very much enjoy having sex with you” when you can hardly speak “How do you do?”</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/firstpic21.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-147" title="firstpic21" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/firstpic21.jpg" alt="" /></a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">One hell of a challenge, indeed.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">But we’ll let you in onto our little secret. Listen well for we will not say this twice.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">You can do it. And you can do it easily.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Here are the proven strategies on how to pick up women.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>1.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->CUT THE LEASH OF NEGATIVE THOUGHTS</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in;">Insecurities and self-doubts are the root of your problem. <span> </span>Stumped? Ok, let me explain a bit.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">Imagine a puppy in a doghouse. A few meters away rolls a steaming hot bacon. The bacon looks so tasty and inviting. The puppy sees it. It wants to approach the bacon and gobble it up.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">But it could not reach the food no matter how hard it tries. A leash reins it to a doghouse and keeps the poor puppy from going to the bacon.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">Cutting the leash would surely solve his dilemma. But as long as the puppy remains on a leash, it will have practically no chances whatsoever of getting to the bacon (unless of course the bacon would pity the puppy and meekly roll down towards the helpless dog!).</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"><span> </span>“Come on, man, “you remark impatiently. “ In plain English, please.”</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">The puppy is you, kiddo. The bacon’s that cute pretty woman. You want to approach her and pick her up but you cannot. You insecurities and self-doubts is the leash that prevents you approaching that woman.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">Know why? Because you think that she will reject you. You think that she will spurn your gesture. You think so many negative thoughts.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">The result? You’re stuck with your own fears, kiddo. Your fears&#8212;your leash, if you will&#8212; tie you down and prevent you from picking up women.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"><span> </span>“So what should I do?” you ask.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">Simple, kiddo. Cut your self-made leash. Banish all negative thoughts from your mind and replace it with positive ones. Believe in yourself. Believe you can do it. Believe in your potential. If you do, you will set yourself free and successfully pick up beautiful women you desired for so long.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">You’re scared to approach beautiful women? Me, too, in the past. So do most of the guys everywhere. You see, you’re not alone.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">We experienced the same difficulty. The trick, then, is to gain confidence. You can begin by enrolling in a public speaking class. When you know what to speak and how to speak it well, you’ve won half the battle.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">Do you just slump on the coach and watch football, basketball, or wrestling on TV and nothing else?<span> </span>I bet you do. That’s why you cannot think of any other topic to discuss with women except sports. Which, by the way, bores women to death.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">The solution? Try to watch fashion shows. Yes, you heard it right. Fashion shows (now, don’t look at me with that exasperated look on your face, kiddo!)</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Also, browse through the newspaper and read about celebrities who had just divorced, shagged up together, or caught on camera with their pants down.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Most importantly, learn about diamonds. <span> </span>If you can tell a woman the difference between a 12-carat diamond from a 24-carat one, that’s a bonus. You see, women are interested to hear about celebrity scandals, fashion shows, and jewelries (though not necessarily in that order).</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[What do you usually do when you want to pick up girls you see at the mall? If you’re like most ordinary guys, you merely stare at her from a distance.
 “I wish I could talk to her, “you mumble. (...)]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">What do you usually do when you want to pick up girls you see at the mall? If you’re like most ordinary guys, you merely stare at her from a distance.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>“I wish I could talk to her, “you mumble.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You wish to be with her. You wish to attract here. You wish to pick her up and hit off to some cozy place.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Have you noticed? All you have are just wishes. You wish this and wish that. And the funny part is, you do nothing. You wish that you can put some magic in your stare and this pretty girl would just snap back in your direction on seeing you. In your mind she would smile and approach you. Then she would slip her arm around you and walk off together happily ever after…</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Hey, hey. Wake up, dumbo. <span> </span>You’re daydreaming! While you’re dreamily enjoying that little fantasy in your head, that pretty girl has passed your way and went through the mall’s exit door.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">She’s gone now.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As for you, your feet seem to be nailed on the spot and couldn’t move. You just blow your opportunity, Mr. Dreamboy. And chances are, this is not the first one.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">So what’s the problem, man? Come on, don’t be shy. You want to pick up girls but didn’t. Most guys are in the same predicament.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You’re scared to approach her, right? <span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Anyway, your problem’s solved. Here are proven ways to overcome your shyness and easily pick up girls:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><span>1.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->APPROACH WOMEN FOR THE FUN OF IT</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/corbis-couple.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-132" title="corbis-couple" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/corbis-couple.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Remember that pretty girl at the mall? You were scared to approach her because you already thought she would reject you.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">That negative thought prevents you from talking to her. <span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Here’s a good strategy to deal with it. Approach women just for the fun of it.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“What if she rejects me?” you cry in panic.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Good question, man. But calm down.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You will not be dragged down to the Sahara desert just because you try to pick up girls and they reject you. You’re still you no matter what. So you should not concern yourself whether she would welcome or reject your gesture.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">What is important is you go ahead and approach her. This is your number 1goal. That way, you can sleep well at night with happy thoughts that you successfully approach&#8211;and hopefully pick up girls.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><span>2.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->COMPLIMENT ON THE THINGS SHE WEARS, NOT HER</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Approaching her and blurting out “You’ve got a cute face” immediately spoils your chances.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And that’s a fact.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Do not say anything about her look, her face, her nose, her eyes, or that cute dimple on her cheeks. If you want to pick up girls, avoid complimenting them about their looks.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Instead, compliment them on <span> </span>the bracelets they’re wearing, their shoes, their dangling earrings or on their nice little pink shoulder bags.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><span>3.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->APPROACH GIRLS WITH A WARM HAPPY ATTITUDE</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><a href="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/daj-es013-womans-lifestyle.jpg" ><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-133" title="daj-es013-womans-lifestyle" src="http://www.shockingdatingsecrets.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/daj-es013-womans-lifestyle.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="332" /></a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Some guys have the notion that to approach and pick up girls is a frightening experience. Now, now, now. Why should that be?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Come to think of it. Approaching pretty girls should be a fun and enjoyable experience. There is really no reason for you to put on that scared look when you approach and pick up girls, is there? It will only make you look scary and literally frighten your prospects. And you don’t want this to happen. <span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>So here’s the deal. <span> </span>Try to look genuinely pleased and happy when approaching girls. Yes, that’s right. Be delighted. <span> </span>And please, don’t forget to smile, ok?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.75pt; text-indent: -18.75pt;"><span>4.)<span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;"> </span></span><!--[endif]-->DEVELOP DESIRABLE ATTITUDE</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You’ve probably heard of the saying, “Birds of the same feather flock together”, right? Of course, you do. You’ve read it during your elementary days</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“What has this saying got to do when I want to pick up girls?” you snap back.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">A lot, actually.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Since you’re still a newbie in approaching women, why not hang out with men who are confident and can easily talk to and pick up girls. Go with smart, smooth-talking guys. Worm yourself into their company, so to speak. Follow them the way a dog chases after an escapee.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">That way, you can learn their techniques in how to successfully pick up girls. And chances, you can also gain the killer confidence that these guys have.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">There are still many ways you can pick up girls. These four tips listed here are just the beginning. Learn them. Put these four tips into action and gain a definite advantage which can improve your chances when you try to pick up girls at the malls, at<span> </span>parks, at restaurants or wherever they might be.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Want more killer dating tips and techniques?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If so, I’d like to invite you to read my free report “How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days”.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">It’s free, there’s no obligation, and you can be reading it within the next 5 minutes.</p>
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