September 24, 2008

How to use your body language in flirting with women

4 Secrets To Using Your Body Language In Flirting With Women

“Your body language, the way you walk, and the way you move through this world on a daily basis, will either attract women to you, or drive them away from you”.

In my experience, your body language is the single most important aspect when it comes to flirting and attracting with women.

It really is.

Have you ever thought about the things you convey about yourself based on your body language?

Did you know that women can tell if you’re confident and cool or nervous and inexperienced just by the observing the way you walk, talk and carry yourself?

Women are very intuitive. They know when a person is confident in what they do, and when they’re not - they can read a million things from a simple smile, or a step, or a sentence.

That’s why it’s super kaduber important to convey confidence using your body language.

The way you come off to a woman is extremely important, because the way she judges you before you talk to her can affect everything else. As they always say, the first impression is the lasting impression.

Here’s what I call the 4 commandments of using your body language to flirt and convey confidence:

Body Language In Flirting Tip # 1: Thou shall not shake or move a lot in the presence of an attractive woman. Men tend to easily get intimidated with women that are way above their league. It’s really funny to watch. It usually goes like this: Man sees attractive woman. Man starts to smile nervously. Man starts to make unnecessary movement because of the extra energy he feels. Man gets very jittery. When woman gets close, man tends to change his behaviors and act way cooler then he really is. If you’re nervous all throughout the interaction, chances are she’ll be nervous too.

Body Language In Flirting Tip # 2: Thou shall not have thy hands inside the front pockets. Never have your hand inside your front pockets when you initiate a conversation with anyone unless it’s below freezing and you don’t have any gloves. For some reason, I feel comfortable when my hands are out of my pockets. At the same time, don’t move your hands around too much when you talk.

Body Language In Flirting Tip # 3: Thou shall not stand or sit too close or too far from her. If you stay to close to her, right from the bat, then she will feel very uncomfortable. If you’re too far from her, then it won’t feel like it’s a conversation. I’ve had success with starting off at about 3-5 feet away, and slowly get closer at specific points of the interaction. Try mixing it up. At high and fun points take a step closer or move your chair closer. At low points step away a little bit. Experiment with it.

Body Language In Flirting Tip # 4:Thou shall relax and lean back. I’ve discovered that when you assume a relaxed position, even if you’re nervous, you slowly start to feel more relaxed. Next time you’re in an interaction, just lean back and try to be as relaxed and comfortable as you can. That includes doing things like slouching, placing your feet up on chairs, and leaning against the wall.

If you work on finding a comfortable balance between gaining an upbeat attitude and working on your body language then , you’ll have already beaten 99% of your competition.

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