How To Have Confidence With Women

What’s the difference between a guy that can approach women without fear and nervousness and the guy that’s just overwhelmed with anxiety?

Answer: What they’re thinking about and where they’re coming from.

The guy that’s confident with women knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that women will love him. All he has to do is walk up and start talking. He also knows that it’s not such a big deal to meet women everywhere he goes.

It’s just the way it is.

On the other hand, the guy that’s nervous and lacks confidence with women thinks about all the reasons why women will reject him. He thinks about all the worst scenarios possible and dwells on them. He comes up with reasons why he shouldn’t talk to women.

He becomes his own enemy.

How To Overcome Approach Anxiety and Meet Women More Confidently

Today we address the #2 most popular question from our readers: how to deal with approach anxiety?

You know, that voice in your head that talks you OUT of going up to an attractive woman and saying something, anything, to get an interaction started.

Approach anxiety, is an interesting beast in many ways.

Technically, it’s the least difficult thing in pickup: all you have to do is walk up to someone and begin a conversation. You will certainly agree with me, if you consider that generating attraction, getting phone numbers, setting up dates, etc., all require at least some technical understanding to execute consistently.

Not true with approaching: just get yourself in front of a woman and say “Hi!” and you’re in the game. (In fact, one of the tricks I teach guys to overcome Approach anxiety is called the 3-step technique: when you see a girl, take 3 steps toward her… and keep going! See, how easy is that.)