During the ancient times, men believed in witchcraft.

They used it to attract girls.

These men scoured the countryside for some knowledgeable witches to cast some magical spell towards the girl of their choice. Sometimes, these witches brewed magic potions. When secretly mixed into the food or drink, these potions caused girls to feel attraction towards the guys.

“I get it now,” says Mark, an oil driller down the Mexican Gulf rig who likes to read fairy tales during his free time.

“That explains why ancient Greek and Roman folklore revolved around these themes. It was their way to attract girls.”

Exactly

In this present-day, we no longer believe in witches or in magic.

Rather, we use modern ways to attract girls.

And these techniques work like a charm.

Do you ever wish to walk down the street and have girls ogling over just to catch your attention?

I bet you do.

You want to make a girl want you. Most guys secretly harbor the same wish. But you snap back from your reverie and brush off your wish away.

I’m just a plain-looking, next-door type of guy, “you tell yourself.

There is no way that girls would coo over me.

Geesh, that’s impossible!

Maybe if I’m George Cloney, or Christopher Reeve. Or if I somehow could at least resemble Brad Pitt. But just being me? No way!

But wait.

What if we tell you that you can make your wish a reality–that you can make a girl want you?

“Aw shucks, man,” you interrupt. “I don’t believe it.”

How To Have Confidence With Women

What’s the difference between a guy that can approach women without fear and nervousness and the guy that’s just overwhelmed with anxiety?

Answer: What they’re thinking about and where they’re coming from.

The guy that’s confident with women knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that women will love him. All he has to do is walk up and start talking. He also knows that it’s not such a big deal to meet women everywhere he goes.

It’s just the way it is.

On the other hand, the guy that’s nervous and lacks confidence with women thinks about all the reasons why women will reject him. He thinks about all the worst scenarios possible and dwells on them. He comes up with reasons why he shouldn’t talk to women.

He becomes his own enemy.

How To Overcome Approach Anxiety and Meet Women More Confidently

Today we address the #2 most popular question from our readers: how to deal with approach anxiety?

You know, that voice in your head that talks you OUT of going up to an attractive woman and saying something, anything, to get an interaction started.

Approach anxiety, is an interesting beast in many ways.

Technically, it’s the least difficult thing in pickup: all you have to do is walk up to someone and begin a conversation. You will certainly agree with me, if you consider that generating attraction, getting phone numbers, setting up dates, etc., all require at least some technical understanding to execute consistently.

Not true with approaching: just get yourself in front of a woman and say “Hi!” and you’re in the game. (In fact, one of the tricks I teach guys to overcome Approach anxiety is called the 3-step technique: when you see a girl, take 3 steps toward her… and keep going! See, how easy is that.)

I’ve got a couple of questions for you…

Are you afraid of approaching women?

Do you sometimes feel like there’s a powerful force that’s just
stopping you from walking over and starting a conversation
with a woman that you’d like to meet?

Is it something that you just can’t explain…it just sort of happens
most of the time and it’s REALLY frustrating?

I know exactly what you mean my friend…

I used to have the biggest fear of talking to women.

I remember the days when I’d see a cute girl sitting by herself in
a coffee shop, and I’d always try to weasel my way out of walking
and talking to her.

And I’d always end up walking home and kicking myself in the
foot for just not doing it.

It really sucked.