How To Overcome Approach Anxiety and Meet Women More Confidently

Today we address the #2 most popular question from our readers: how to deal with approach anxiety?

You know, that voice in your head that talks you OUT of going up to an attractive woman and saying something, anything, to get an interaction started.

Approach anxiety, is an interesting beast in many ways.

Technically, it’s the least difficult thing in pickup: all you have to do is walk up to someone and begin a conversation. You will certainly agree with me, if you consider that generating attraction, getting phone numbers, setting up dates, etc., all require at least some technical understanding to execute consistently.

Not true with approaching: just get yourself in front of a woman and say “Hi!” and you’re in the game. (In fact, one of the tricks I teach guys to overcome Approach anxiety is called the 3-step technique: when you see a girl, take 3 steps toward her… and keep going! See, how easy is that.)

Want to learn how to pick up girls?

Sorry to burst you bubble buddy, that’s not what I’m going to teach
you today.

First of all, let’s get one thing straight.

I hate the term “picking up girls” because it makes it sound like you
have to try really hard just to get girls. On top of that, it has such a
sleazy implication in society nowadays.
Instead, I’ll teach you something way more powerful than just
picking up girls.

What if you had the power to magnetically attract women to you
in a way that makes them want you more and more as each day
passed by?

What if you could create this powerful sexual attraction in any
woman that you want?

What if you could make this attraction last as long as you want,
and even make it permanent?

I’ve got a couple of questions for you…

Are you afraid of approaching women?

Do you sometimes feel like there’s a powerful force that’s just
stopping you from walking over and starting a conversation
with a woman that you’d like to meet?

Is it something that you just can’t explain…it just sort of happens
most of the time and it’s REALLY frustrating?

I know exactly what you mean my friend…

I used to have the biggest fear of talking to women.

I remember the days when I’d see a cute girl sitting by herself in
a coffee shop, and I’d always try to weasel my way out of walking
and talking to her.

And I’d always end up walking home and kicking myself in the
foot for just not doing it.

It really sucked.