Do you ever wish to walk down the street and have girls ogling over just to catch your attention?

I bet you do.

You want to make a girl want you. Most guys secretly harbor the same wish. But you snap back from your reverie and brush off your wish away.

I’m just a plain-looking, next-door type of guy, “you tell yourself.

There is no way that girls would coo over me.

Geesh, that’s impossible!

Maybe if I’m George Cloney, or Christopher Reeve. Or if I somehow could at least resemble Brad Pitt. But just being me? No way!

But wait.

What if we tell you that you can make your wish a reality–that you can make a girl want you?

“Aw shucks, man,” you interrupt. “I don’t believe it.”

How To Have Confidence With Women

What’s the difference between a guy that can approach women without fear and nervousness and the guy that’s just overwhelmed with anxiety?

Answer: What they’re thinking about and where they’re coming from.

The guy that’s confident with women knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that women will love him. All he has to do is walk up and start talking. He also knows that it’s not such a big deal to meet women everywhere he goes.

It’s just the way it is.

On the other hand, the guy that’s nervous and lacks confidence with women thinks about all the reasons why women will reject him. He thinks about all the worst scenarios possible and dwells on them. He comes up with reasons why he shouldn’t talk to women.

He becomes his own enemy.

How To Overcome Approach Anxiety and Meet Women More Confidently

Today we address the #2 most popular question from our readers: how to deal with approach anxiety?

You know, that voice in your head that talks you OUT of going up to an attractive woman and saying something, anything, to get an interaction started.

Approach anxiety, is an interesting beast in many ways.

Technically, it’s the least difficult thing in pickup: all you have to do is walk up to someone and begin a conversation. You will certainly agree with me, if you consider that generating attraction, getting phone numbers, setting up dates, etc., all require at least some technical understanding to execute consistently.

Not true with approaching: just get yourself in front of a woman and say “Hi!” and you’re in the game. (In fact, one of the tricks I teach guys to overcome Approach anxiety is called the 3-step technique: when you see a girl, take 3 steps toward her… and keep going! See, how easy is that.)

How To Get Women - The Oliver Turner Way

How ya doin?

Is your head bursting yet from the cool tips you get from me
twice daily?

Hope not… because there’s a lot more where that came from. As
a matter of fact, I’m just barely getting started here.

A lot of guys ask me how I do it.

They are eager to find out my exact system for getting women
almost every single time.

That’s what I’m going to share with you today.

Here’s a sample progression of how I get women.

I approach the girl I want right away. If she’s walking, I make
her stop to talk to me. If she’s walking away from me, I make sure
she hears me running towards her, and then I stop her and make her
turn around to talk to me. If she’s inside her car, getting ready to
leave, I knock on the window and start talking to her.